Rest Assured

I have the day off on a Friday - 3 day week-end! Normally I like to make plans when I have an extra day to spend with my friends or family. I try to remain flexible so I can pick up new work on the fly whenever possible. Last night I contacted my friends but of course they have already made plans, and it kind of frustrated me. But it got me thinking. Maybe I am looking at this all wrong.

You see, most of the time I am like the Energizer bunny. Boom boom boom! Constantly doing something and trying to keep a bunch of plates spinning at the same time. I run a small tech business you can visit here. Recently, I was sick for about 3 days straight and I couldn't figure out what it was. My head and chest were freaking out with symptoms resembling an allergic reaction, and I tried treating it as such. Right in the middle of it, one of the plates I had spinning came crashing down due to a partner backing out of a project. This was a shock at first, but then a relief because suddenly I didn't need to focus time and energy on it.

This was in fact exactly what I needed, as I started feeling better almost immediately. The next morning my fever had broken and I had finally gotten a good night's rest for the first time in a few days. Perhaps I had taken on one too many projects and the 'allergic reaction' was partly brought on by stress. Looking back, I hadn't slept through the night for several weeks prior because I was staying up too late burning the midnight oil.

Extraordinary Wild Flowers Natures Coloring Book

I get it now. Sometimes I can be too intense and stretch myself thin. Even to the breaking point, apparently! Lesson learned. I'm not a spring chicken anymore. So, it is Friday and I am starting this 3 day week-end right. I slept in until 10:30 this morning! Felt good to get some rest.

Roll With It

If there is one thing I learned from my dad (pretty sure there is more than one) it is  tenacity. I watched him take on one thing after another and overcome obstacles by sheer determination, over and over. He often included me as a helper when I was young, and I learned a great deal in the process. From working on cars, to home renovation, to dealing with people, I recall the actions he took. I was a very lucky young man to have a dad who was interested in teaching me how to handle situations that most people would hire another to get it done.

More than anything I want to highlight that he taught me to be observant and to learn by doing. I am not afraid to get in the middle of a mechanical problem or tackle a technical issue because of this. I know there is an answer and I may find it, but only if I stick with it to the end. Tenacious people make things continue to work instead of scrapping the whole thing and starting over, by carefully identifying the problem and fixing it. A relationship can be salvaged in the same way if both parties are willing to be tenacious and work towards resolution. The rewards are worth it.

In retrospect, some things just break. No matter how much time (or money) you spend trying to make it work again, it simply fails. This is  counter-intuitive to tenacious people, but a fact of life. The best one can do is reach out for advice, if only to confirm there is no use wasting resources trying to fix the problem. Things break and must be replaced. Timing is most important, and as Murphy's Law would have it, breakdowns usually occur when you are least prepared.

The takeaway? Remember you are tenacious and you will figure it out.  Also be a realist, as denial and dismay can only cause more problems or even magnify them. The challenge is probably not as big as it seems. Look at yo9ur options, do what you can do and keep moving forward. Part of growing as an individual is learning to adapt and overcome using what is available - requiring creativity. Just roll with it!
Extraordinary Wild Flowers Natures Coloring Book

2 Weeks from Today

Just last week, I was in a bind that most of us have experienced before. I lost a credit card. I use this thing all the time, as it was my primary bank account card. I turned the house upside down looking for it in the couch cushions, my jackets, etc... I even went back to the last 2 places I could have lost it and went through the trash at a convenience store! After looking everywhere for 2 days, the idea that someone else could find the card and use it was weighing on me, so I did the only thing I had the power to do at that point and close the account. No problem, right? Well I called the 800 number and went through the automated lost card reporting tool thing, and completed punching in all the answers to the prompts from my phone, and at the end it tells me: "Thank you. Your card has been reported lost or stolen. A new card will be issued. Please allow 2 weeks for delivery." I was like, what? 2 weeks? I don't think so. I mean, after going through the prompts twice actually because I screwed up the first call and then to hear that my money was tied up with no access for 2 weeks... now I was mad. So it was late and I went to bed intending to call and speak with a human in the morning to get a more definite date of delivery.

2 more days went by. Glad I stashed some cash a few weeks ago 'In case of emergency', I mean, this is starting to qualify. I cleared out 30 minutes where I could call and get to a living person and sat down with my phone. 10 minutes on hold, 2 transfers and another 10 minutes later, my call goes through to a helpful man who pulls up my account. He then proceeds to ask me 3 security questions and then puts me back on hold.
Extraordinary Wild Flowers Natures Coloring Book
When he comes back he says, "Yes, the card has been reported lost or stolen and I will be happy to initiate the process of getting a new card issued to you." Ok, let's do it. Again? Didn't I go through the automated thing and report it 2 days ago... I guess that's what I get for relying on a robot... it's a good thing that I decided to call for a person. Then it was, "Just a moment," He comes back after another few minutes and says, "I've ordered the new card. Is there anything else I can do for you?" I thanked him and then asked how long it will be before I get my new card and he says, "2 weeks from today."